It doesn't belong in Newcomers altough I'm not entirely convinced it belongs here either.
Journalling
My wife are from Sydney, Australia and have been to absolute hell and back over the past 2 years with her PA/EA that started in January 2008. We have put each other through various hells beforehand - me being the culprit mainly with my anger, selfishness and verbal abuse. I was a pretty nasty piece of work to live with from time to time in the early years of our marriage and I regret this terribly.
My DB story begins in March 2008 and the entire tale is to be found here:
At the time of writing my wife and I are sleeping in the same bed, do everything together on weekends and when I'm home from work, have a sexual relationship and spend lots of time together with our baby son. He was born in December 2009 and I have confirmed with a DNA test that he is mine. W knows I have done this.
Not all marriages need to be saved. I am sure, in retrospect, that I would have ultimately prevailed, even if my wife and I had divorced. I am certain of that.
I've no idea really how we got through it.
Hey G....I remember you....
It's been a hot minute...
I'm elated that you and your Wife have worked toward a hopefully happy life together....