I am sure you are looking forward to your D coming home for Thanksgiving. Enjoy the time you have with her. It sounds like your h was ok with going out to dinner for her birthday and then stopping at DQ to get her a blizzard.

The holidays can be very rough for those who have lost family members over the years. When you feel emotional, pull out those wonderful memories that you shared with family and allow the warm glow from those memories wrap you in a warm blanket of love.

As for your h, no expectations. Keep focusing on you and your family. Plan some fun things to do during the holidays and if he wants to tag along, so be it. Control you and what you can do and leave the rest in God's hands. He is the only one that can drive the bus.

Happy Thanksgiving and I want to hear all about the fun things that you did with your family this holiday.