Hey bkerchik,

From a campsite with S13 this weekend

You’re doing it right

Fears of how our children will react and fears of how this will damage them … yeah.

My first reaction on BD when asked what concerns I had…. “Our children”

I received all the rationalizations, etc from her. All the way to “as long as they don’t FEEL like I abandoned them, they’ll be fine. “

They are truly the innocent in all the mess. And it WILL cause lifelong effects. Many of my choices have been for the purpose of minimizing those effects.

As I do continue to read old threads, this might be of interest. hoosiermama details her D’s reactions to jer father’s actions and OW.

My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations). https://forum.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1818824&page=2

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"Doin' It Right" (feat. Panda Bear) - Daft Punk

Doing it right
Everybody will be dancing
And we'll be feeling it right
Everybody will be dancing
And be doing it right
….
If you do it right
Let it go all night
Shadows on you break
Out into the light