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I'm so sorry you're having to navigate such rough waters right now. It is a terrible spot to be in, but take comfort that many of us are out here navigating rough waters too, so you're not alone.
Maybe some advice that will give you comfort is "Believe none of what he or she says and half of what he/she does." She very well may have just said she filed for divorce without actually having done so, trying to get a rise out of you. If you haven't been served then I would say that's a positive and we'll just celebrate that for now. Baby steps.
Try not to overanalyze her social media changes, I know easier said than done! But it's not going to do you any good and just overwhelm you even more trying to dig for answers. Perhaps she does feel sad and alone now, and is seeking outside validation now that she doesn't have you to provide that. Unfortunately, we can't know without her input, so try not to hold onto that.
Right now, the only thing we can do is let time run its course and try to better ourselves in the mean time.
