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So a duplicate credit card payment for his “work card” again last month. I haven’t said anything about it. But sometime I can’t help feeling that he thinks I’m just ignorant for not bringing these things up. He’s obviously trying to hide it. At what point am I just becoming a doormat?
I am inferring you mean H made a second identical payment to try to hide that he had higher expenses to cover. (You saw the two payment in the banking statement, not the credit card statement.)
They do try to hide stuff. Like the lease cancelation, let it go. Don't ask. (Do continue to keep tabs on the finances.)
I do not see you as a doormat. Doormats get walked on, and you are not getting walked on.
Nice to see you - as in both of you - are getting the car fixed. Also nice to hear H is helping around the house as well. A simple thank you to his positive behaviors can go a long way. Well done.
