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Thanks, Rock. Keeping the faith, following the path, and planning = not easy. Often on this board, we talk about DBing being counterintuitive. I felt at times like I was trying to swim against the current of MWDs recommendations and those of members of the DB community here. Little by little, I just embraced doing what was counterintuitive. For example, I stop pursuing W. I pivoted my focus on my well-being and that of D15. I stuck to Sandi's guidance to others over time until the old behaviors that contributed to my half or our marital conflict steadily got replaced by better ones. Not as simple as it sounds. As many of you can attest, your heart and mind want to do one thing, while MWD and members of this forum (whose main interest is to offer less biased advice than people we know) are often recommending 180-degree different paths. And, you're right, a good MC makes a great deal of difference, but you need both parties to trust each other and want to put in the work.
