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I’m glad you enjoyed the fundraiser. Good job remaining there even though H wanted to, and did, leave.
Originally Posted by bkerchik
I think I’m having a hard time getting this June 7th date out of my head. That and for some reason I’m feeling like I need to apologize for my share of this. After BD I apologized profusely, but never anything specific. Is this even a good idea?
I’d suggest not apologizing further. You’ve already apologized. Leave it be.
If something “specific” comes up, and it has credence, certainly own your part and give a sincere apology. Once. Do not want to beat it to death.
When other blames come up, things you are not culpable for, let them slide. No need to fight to try to get H to see your side. Just validate his feelings and move on. “H, I’m sorry you feel that way.”
Go about becoming your best version of yourself. Fix your side of the street. Whatever you apologized for, make changes. Make them permanent. Do them for you. Become bkerchik2.0. A woman only a fool would leave.
Don’t tell H of your changes and work. He won’t believe it anyhow. Besides it’s for you. Just leave him to notice your positive changes.
Leave the topic of June 7th alone. (I mean no talks/pleading with H, not living in denial.) Focus on you. Get organized and prepared. There will be two households. H has stated he is serious about this. Ensure you have things in order for you and the kids.
