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Yep. They will say all kinds of stuff to assuage their guilt/shame/etc. In a similar vein, they utilize all manner of blame and justifications to alleviate their feelings too.
And they pop out more during anniversaries and other special dates. The past weekend’s 33 year anniversary being an prime example.
Originally Posted by lonelee
He stated out of respect for me he was spends the whole day alone. So BIG of him!
Good for you seeing right through his BS. There is nothing respectful about what he is doing.
Originally Posted by lonelee
I was starting to feel a bit better like I had more control over my emotions and now I feel deflated! However, I know if I can do it once I can do it again!!
Absolutely you can do it!
It only feels like you are back at ground zero. You aren’t. You have knowledge and experience. Gained hard-earned wisdom in the latest exchange.
Everyone has setbacks. Which turn out to be rather misnamed in my opinion. These times usually end up promoting significant forward progress for the LBS.
You got this my dear. Focus back on you. Keep moving forward.
