I would also check your computers (at home) to see if he has planted something on them. Check your cell phones for trackers. They are very easy to install.

Do not think for one minute that they wouldn't do this. My xh did this with my email and how I found out was when his mother called and told me about a couple of conversations that I had with someone from this Board. Once I knew about it, I began searching and found the culprit and removed the command. Boy was he angry not being able to know what I was posting to others.

They become the exact opposite of the people you once knew and trust me...they lie very well.