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Hi everyone. Wow, hard to believe it's been over 3 months since I've posted. Life's been crazy I guess. Just wanted to check in and say hello.
Overall things have been pretty good. I've been dating a girl for a few months now. She's been great. Almost a 180 from XW. She's supportive, physically into me, sweet, etc. It does bother her that we only get to see each other a day or two a week, mostly due to my son. But for now, that's like perfect for me. Not sure I could or would commit to much more at this time. I tore my MCL playing baseball, but still trying to play through it. lol. She's came to every game to watch. XW I think came to 3 games in 10 years.
Son is busy with football now, plus wrestling practices. He's seemingly adjusted to everything pretty well. He does seem a little sad at times, but that's to be expected I guess. I typically have him more than 50% of the time. It was great in the summer, since at my house he can swim, ride bikes, shoot hoops, etc etc.
XW and I continue to coparent pretty well I think. She's still very uninvolved with his sports. He's had 4 football games, and she hasn't made any of them. Hasn't come to any meetings, parents nights, hasn't volunteered with anything. Always 'busy' with work, sick, or whatever other excuse she can come up with. She still texts me usually every day. 95% of the time it's related to our son, but the last few weeks she's texted a few times about stupid small talk crap. I rarely reply, and if I do it's a one word answer.
I unfriended her on facebook the day of the divorce. A friend and I were out for drinks last week, and he said she's posted a few things on her page about how the dating market [censored], how hard it is being a single parent, etc. lol. Apparently she was too dumb to realize all that last year. Whatever. She's aware of me involved with this new girl, and has made a few snide comments about it to mutual friends. Nothing nasty, just stuff like 'well that didn't take long', 'he sure moved on quick', etc
Anyhow, that's about it for now. Sorry I've been MIA, but I'm going to be around more often. Hope everyone is well.