When our sitch first started H quit paying my car payment when I wouldn't do what he wanted, I hope that's not where we are now because I wouldn't agree to his response to my response.

We are still NC, haven't heard a peep from him since Feb. Don't know what he's doing or where and don't really worry abt it. I have given him to God and let it go. Not gonna lie, his brother has completely lost his ind, his job and prob his family, I hope H can see himself in his brother's action and has an AHA moment.

BTW H doesn't know I can access his acct....shhhh..LOL