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I was reading other treads and it brought back some details i paid attention to in my story and others. The MLCer seem to know what he wants, when he wants it and seem to have control. They push us away than pull us abit just to push us away again. One thing i noticed is : once we put a stop to this and take control of our own life, they get scared. They do not understand why we no longer reach out to them.
If we start hanging around with other singles, they get very angry, mean or make their presence seen.. ALOT
I see this alot. I use to say: " They don' t want us but they won' t let us go."
They really want us to sit and wait.
This might make people think: MLCer made a CHOICE but you also have a CHOICE. Some want their cake and eat it to. You can wait it out with no garanty of return or you can concentrate your time on yourself. Make peace with the whole situation.
Ex-H wanted a divorce. When i gave it to him, he was very angry. Once we finalized it, he burned his copy.. He has kept my ring. ( still has it ). He visits my sister and brother-in-law regularly. Because of this, i don' t visit them much. My sister told me they were nice to him so that he would not cause me trouble.. ???
Keep in mind that i did not reach out to them when Ex-H became scary. I talked to my best friend, my lawyer, my councellor and came on here. I did not want to bring my problems to others.
