Good afternoon DB community. I wanted to pop in, check on everyone to see if I might be able to offer some support, and confirm that our D has been dismissed. We continue to have positive interactions, are solving "light" problems together and head-on. I got the first card in a long time with a "Love" in the signature area. We've been on several mini-dates and feel a bit of the original spark we had when we originally began dating. I feel strongly that we found a solid counselor who has the skills to guide us both along better than past MCs. Still lots of piecing to be done to be sure. I continue to practice DBing where appropriate and not backsliding from these hard won gains. I'm hopeful that, for those of you with relationships that can be salvaged, my continued updates may help with strategies, motivation, and whatever else you may need to get through one day at a time. Take care, P.