R2C: do you think H is pursuing me (on a small scale!) with his texts of 'care' or is H a clingy boomerang?
I am following your sitch "Loosly"...IE not into all the details. My input is more based on my understanding of what works in most cases for most people.
If you chase a child, the child runs away. If you run away from the child, the child cases you. Same with your dogs.
