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[spoiler][/spoiler]I understand, but this reads to me like it’s all her fault…..and it’s not.
You know what you are dealing with, and have known, and still trusted her to do the right thing in a timely manner, that’s on you.
This could have been nipped in the bud pretty quickly by not waiting to use a lawyer after it’s already been pushed back once.
Stick to the lawyer, stop contacting her. She doesn’t take you seriously and doesn’t care what you have to say and she’s proven that with her actions.
Stop looking at her social media under under the guise that you’re just keeping tabs on her and if she’s busy.
Would you trust a stranger the way you’ve trusted her with all of this? I sure wouldn’t and the sooner you understand she’s’ not emotionally your wife anymore, the better you’ll handle this. You’ve been fired as her husband, that’s the only way to look at this.
I’m trying to get you to see this from a different perspective. You have to take responsibility for that fact you acted as if she’s something she’s not. She’s not responsible, she’s not acting as an adult would, and yet you keep expecting her too. Again change your expectations and act accordingly.