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Tomorrow is the 6 year anniversary of BD. For those that don't know my history it is kind of a BD#2. In September 2005 I discovered an online EA, but when I confronted her back then she immediately said she didn't want a D. That's when I discovered MWD and DB. When I confronted her about an EA 6 years ago, she immediately said she didn't want to be married anymore.
It's funny how I used to hate the date 12/23. Now I look at it more as an "Awakening Date" than a Bomb Date. It was the day I woke up to how badly I had neglected my marriage, how poor my behavior had become, and how I had been drifting through life, sleepwalking almost, rather than having purpose.
I figured I'd post today since tomorrow is Saturday and will likely be a busy day. The good news for those in an active situation is that what the vets here say is true. There is light at the end of the tunnel. That things will get better, whether you save your marriage or not, and you will thrive again one day if you put the work in on yourself.
