Also, while I’m here - I’m going to nag you again about the loan fraud.

You going to keeping being a passenger, or are you going to start driving?

Time to make hard decisions rather than live with years or a lifetime of regret.

Call a lawyer and your bank. Call a therapist.

All hard things in life are worth it in the long run.

This site is littered with people who tried to nice their spouse back and were afraid to rock the boat. Nearly all of them regret it.