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So often I try to go gave fun and he goes to 3 bars and I just can’t stop thinking and talking about it. It has ruined my time over and over lately.

Here, I fixed it for you.

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I can’t stop thinking about it because I don’t have the skills to deal with this on my own - so I’m going to see a psychologist so that I know what to do. Previously, I HAVE ALLOWED him to ruin my time over and over, but now I’ve realised that it’s me who controls me and my feelings, not his cr***y behaviour. This is temporary, it will get better.