So to answer your question I started off devastated like everyone here. Couldn’t believe my exw was tearing apart are family. Thought our problems were fixable. What gets understated here is just how done they are. Some people hold on tight to believe nothing they say, MLC, fog etc. but the bottom line is they have been thinking about this for a really long time and are done! So I like Terrapin got involved in the red pill world and was convinced women were evil, never happy etc. I think by doing that it made it easier to not take responsibility for the breakdown of my marriage. I decided this ideology was not productive so I decided to read, listen to anything that had to do with attraction works. I think it is very important to understand how men and women are different and how they are biologically wired. Once you really understand it then everything makes sense and becomes easier. I think every person should understand their sexual market value. You should understand that if you as a man are a 7 and you are dating a 10 your life is going to but really difficult and you are likely to feel a lot of pain at some point. However, if you are a 7 and you are dating a 6 your life will be pretty amazing.
It’s up to you to decide how long you are going to hold onto the fantasy of your at best subpar marriage or if you want to do what it takes to be in an amazing relationship someday.
