Originally Posted by buck1
I was definitely afraid of public humiliation from that possibility.
So you have a great opportunity for personal growth.

You can not control other people. You can only control how you respond. Figure out what is attractive male behavior and behave that way. In all situations.

Soooo.. other peoples behavior should not humiliate you....on the other hand, the way you respond to their behavior may be humiliating. Do not tolerate disrespect.


Start commanding respect. Get your beliefs, thoughts, actions, eye contact, body language, words, tones, inflections etc all in alignment.