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This woman knows she has something over you, and is holding the position of power.
The fact she appears to be doing it deliberately and taking enjoyment from it is even worse.
I’m not sure how you can be attracted to someone who will take joy in messing with your head?
Perhaps you need a different IC? Any decent IC should be able to help this very easily.
Please, for the sake of your self respect and any slim chances of future reconciliation, put a lid on your desires in front of her.
At the moment, she sees a weak, easily manipulated, in love puppy dog that she has on a string. While she might get enjoyment from teasing you like this, it means she has ZERO respect for you. Women won’t reconcile with a man they don’t respect. Every time you play submissive and weak to try and get her in bed, you’re cementing a future without her.
Next time she looks you up and down provocatively and waits for you to crumble, just say “Hey. I’m going out to a new bar tomorrow night, I’ll need you to watch the kids.” And then don’t wait for an answer, just turn about face and leave.
Also, you need a new wardrobe, aftershave, shoes and haircut.
Don’t have younger friends at your work? Ask them to go shopping with you.
Women generally love shopping, even if it’s for someone else. If you have a female colleague at work who is 8-10 years younger, tell her you are going through a breakup and want to modernise your look but don’t know where to start. Ask if she will come shopping with you, because inevitably a younger person will push you out of your fashion comfort zone and help you look more modern.
