Yep, a steady ship. All that cacophony and chaos can occur elsewhere.
It’s a bit of trek letting go the drama. Our situations are pretty full of dramatic events. And living with such, we kind of get used to that. When our situations, when we, start to stabilize we still have that kind of need for drama. It’s one of the reasons folks feel they need to do something. Calm and peaceful are, for a while, a bit unknown and do get rediscovered.
There is a required time to find one’s center when getting off the rollercoaster and then riding the swan ride down the lazy river. Just like in an actual amusement park, directly hoping off the sky screamer coaster and on to the gentle swan, our emotions are still ramped up and we are full of energies. Takes a bit to adjust to the calm gentle flow of the waters and the serene environment.
Indifference takes time to adjust to. You are in calm waters now. You are captain of your ship. A ship on a pretty steady tack. Leave H to his drama, you’ve got plenty of things ongoing in your life. Work, kids, gym, travelling, and so on.
It feels really good when we embrace our full and fulfilling life, drama free.
By the way, you didn’t waste 2023, it was a needed investment into self.
