Thanks Kind. Yep very very true.I think I’m going to call a meeting next week on my day off work. It’s time. My 42 birthday is about 6 weeks away too and I am getting a bunch of friends together for a night out and booking a night in a hotel in the city ( even though I live 3km away from a major city) just so I can spoil myself enjoy a night out, not worry about getting up the next day and having a laugh