I must say in all my reading of MLC I am amazed H hasn’t followed the usual pattern of younger friends, going out a lot, partying, buying expensive stuff etc. He has completely gone within himself and become a recluse, work,game errands for kids drink repeat. Not the typical pattern. Completely withdrawn from life living like a slob. Such a miserable state of mind to be in. Maybe it’s what happens to an introvert. Meanwhile I am all about making my kids life amazing and surrounding myself with people, friends, family, support.
