.... yes I have been a fool a very patient fool who did DB( not great most of the times) along the way, but now I am finally letting that rope go.... I told him that if this is what he chooses we need to do it properly there is no friendzone there is no family dinners etc. he needs to live in what it means to properly separate not the coming and going and having me on the side.....I’ve lost all hope now....I think I am ok. I had my cry,....I am still hurting a bit.....I think I am ok, I am sad but ok. I tried my guts out for 7 months since BD, even was so kind and caring and patient for 3 months he has been gone...
You sound like you are moving through this process better than most. Keep up the DBing. The ultimate outcome of the changes is a better version of the old you. All the new behaviors are part of the growth we all need. Can't change others, but we can make positive changes to ourselves. That is what is important.
Originally Posted by Pattnee5
Sorry for the vent...I don’t know where else to go x
