Why worry so much on the motivations and movements of someone who doesn’t worry about you?

As long as nothing was damaged, forget about it. Don’t bring it up, don’t try and interpret what it means… just get on with your life.

What do you think would be more attractive to him?
a) someone who confronts him and makes a big deal out of it
b) someone who seems so busy and happy she doesn’t even notice?

You should have got the locks changed two weeks ago when you first thought of it.

Doorbell - if he won’t allow you to have control of it, buy a new one. Take the old one off and put it in a box somewhere.