Originally Posted by Terapin
What do I do after that? Just continue to DB and play the waiting game till she files? Tell her what my L had to say regarding the stuff she asked me to consider (custody, debt division, etc)? Wait till she brings stuff up again?

1) Wait till she brings it up
2) STFU and listen
3) at the end respond with "Thanks for sharing. I need time to process what you have said." or something similar. Do not share your thoughts, plans or ideas at this point.
4) Speak with us and get legal advise.
5) Come up with an action plan.
6) execute the plan.