Hi Rock,

Just a small hijack for all those currently fighting for their marriage.


A few great statements I heard in a Youtube video "Silence Is How You P*nish Women". Worth watching for all the details.

Quote
"When you're in a relationship, yes she gets to know your thoughts, she gets to know your feelings, you share all of that openly with her, but that is a privilege that she gets by being in a committed relationship with you."

"But she has broken that bond and so she has therefore lost that privilege she is no longer entitled to know your thoughts and feelings."


"Now the reason that she wants to know what you're thinking is because she's looking to alleviate her own guilt and she wants to know specifically what your thoughts are so that she can mount a defense. She wants to argue against something specific."

This is why STFU is extremely important. You keep your cards close. No need to argue.