Thanks guys, I will carry on for now and use your suggestions. I definitely need to write down what reconciliation looks like to me. Mach, I was talking with a friend and brought up the same concerns. I’m afraid, there’s that fear again, that she is trying to get back to a secure, safe place while we go through this with her dad. When things get better(or worse) then she may not feel the same way about us. I know that’s out of my control, still think it’s a legitimate concern. Also, I found a couple of Fb pages for Bull nose Fords, wasn’t sure if you were on either of them.
D- no she did mot change her mind. Lots of excuses to not go. What are you gonna do?
I think with everything going on right now I will take her words as a small positive sign and just keep on doing what I’ve been doing. No rush, I just hate that at some point things could fall apart due to me not letting her sweep everything under the rug, so to speak.
It's possible that is what she is looking for...
However, I don't see so many of the signs that a person would have, if they are wanting back into a relationship....
There is a certain aspect of "from this day forward" that you will have to recognize, yet there should be a higher level of really wanting this, that should be out there too....
I would suggest just dropping the expectations for now....
Don't expect that things will work out...
Yet, also, don't expect that they won't work out either....
Answers will come in time, and not your time either....
For now ?
Nothing has changed, so why should you ???
I'm on a couple of them, the one from earlier today is the easiest one to see it on...
