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I can relate to this in my sich and will reread BF’s post. rejoice, I believe her input to be important for you to read reread and digest. W made it clear to me shortly after BD that she is dead serious about not going back to how things were. And I for one do not want to go back to that and also don’t want this.
It is taking a profound reworking of my instincts and behaviors. Just lately there has been a noticeable shift in that W has been more reflective and bringing up ways she checked out of the M. And she has been saying she notices my changes and how I’m taking care of everything that needs to be. She has also been telling me more of her ideas for me to continue on my best path.
And also lately she was more humble as she explained to me things so never knew about her dreams and hopes for our M. It seems to me we are more clearly separated and apart by definition. Now as I have been detaching more. And she has changed her language. Also she just spent time with our original Pastor and sounds like she is planning g to have counseling from him.
In my sich, I believe it is time for me to go further in my work on and for me and give W as much space as I possibly can.
And BF, I have been following your advice and leaving my communication with W to only special needs S and not our other kids.
