Seems like you're trying to force a result.

Manipulate him into making a choice he's not ready to make yet.

That didn't work last time, which is why you're in the same spot again now.

Also what are the legal ramifications of you leaving, if it does go the D route - is that considered abandonment in your state?

Do not act precipitously.

Focus on yourself.

Try an IHS where you're in separate bedrooms, rather than leaving the premises.

GAL activities.