Hi Rockon you mentioned growth and learning was in the agenda for this week. I think learning the importance of living consciously would help anyone of us in this group grow. Most of us probably have been on auto pilot for sometime. That’s a good reason why our Ws got fed up and left us. If we change this and wake up we will increase our maturity, vision, and awareness. our minds will open to our environments/reality and guide our actions accordingly. We have a choice to seek awareness, seek truth, and focus our minds. Or just avoid it all. It also means that we need to act on what we see and know. We should know that our actions are in line with the divorce busting purpose. If we are searching for feedback from this forum, we should use it to adjust or correct our course of action‘s. Your threads are long with great advice from many veterans and newcomers that are consistent with with divorce Busting principles. we’re all gonna encounter difficulties and all get through this in time if we consistently work at it, but the key is to never never never never give up. It has been proven that if we do this work that we will be better people no matter what the outcome is. So start concentrating on your self and make yourself better. We need to let go of what we can’t control with the decisions our Ws made. We need to stop letting them bring us down with their negativities and their unhappiness. And focus on us. We need to stop denying and disowning our needs and do something practical to improve ourselves in the unsatisfactory relationship we’re in. If you do this, you’ll be a good model for your kids. Believe it or not doing everything for other people is not a good model for kids to see they need to see you doing stuff for yourself so then they will repeat that and do stuff for themselves. I pray for you And hope that you get through this healthier and happier
