Well, last night was something else. The kids were FaceTiming her while she was in her hotel room and we heard a man’s voice and a quick “oh s***” before silence. When they asked who it was she said it was the tv. Yeah, right. I think the kids bought it as they didn’t say anything but “oh, ok.” But I didn’t.
None of that is NEW information...
You suspected it anyway..
Like Boat says, it's either a dealbreaker and you are done...
Or is isn't and you proceed with you...
Use the anger to fuel your self growth and move forward, regardless of what she may or may not be doing...