I'm going to sound like an @$$hole, but there's a reason I'm saying this:

Family time if for you and the kids, not including your wife.

Now, why am I saying that, on a board that advocates marriage and family?

Because how is she going to know what she's missing if she still gets an invitation to the party??

She's not living with you, right?

It was her idea to leave, right?

Are you, in her mind, a friend - she's telling you about other men.

Are you, in her mind, a booty call? - good job turning that temptation down!

Give her what she says she wants

She may, in time, realize that's not what she wants at all.

In the meantime, focus on what YOU want, separate from her and your marriage.

Become the man who embodies ^^^