DW you are in a very difficult situation. I can relate to so much and I’m really impressed with what I understand of what you are dealing with and the ways you are looking after yourself, your family and what’s most important to you. No advice - just solidarity, brotherhood, admiration instead. Strength and courage mate. And have a blast this weekend. D adores you it seems like and she is going to be happy having a great time and seeing you relax and enjoy yourself. Maybe fit in some relaxation and space for yourself at times. I have been doing that - just getting out for some walks.