That's good advice MikeP. I've assumed I would feel much better if my W were to move out. I've never considered that it might be harder to handle.
MA, I don't have any wisdom for you but wanted to lend some support. You'll make it through this as everyone else here has. As bad as my situation with my W is right now, this forum has helped me with every other aspect of my life. Even just having another outlet besides friends/family/IC to vent has been immeasurably helpful. Keep updating and seeking advice when you need it. Best of luck!