While I’m no expert or veteran to this board, I will say be prepared. I told W the same thing about seeing the om while living with me. She said she would move out. I thought things would be easier. For me, they were not. The night she left was the hardest night of my life. Once she was gone I wondered and worried even more about her and the om. I’m only telling you this as a precaution- somehow you need to be prepared. I wasn’t as prepared as I thought and I had not found this forum yet. Hopefully you will be in a better place than I was due to the advice and support of the awesome people on here. Good luck, we’re all pulling for you!