She told me she is very unhappy and doesn’t know what’s to do.
Let me make this really clear for you… What she really means is
“I feel bad because you’re trying and I’m not, but I’m still choosing to bang another guy. I’m making lots of excuses because I don’t want to take responsibility for my choices. “I’m really sad” is easier for me to face than “I’m choosing to cheat and break my vow”.”
You have two very simple choices Rockon.
1. Live the next 2, 5 or 10 years in limbo hoping she might wake up, fretting about the right words to use every day, trying to keep her happy, hanging onto tidbits of hope and wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone WHO DOESN’T VALUE YOU.
2. Face the reality, rip the band-aid off, divorce her and walk away with your head held high.
You’re a good guy. Don’t you deserve someone who loves and respects you? You need some self respect mate.
