I am willing to do what is right and what it takes. In making changes for me, I don’t want to give into ideas that I have to become someone else or compete with AP. I need to be solid and unwavering in making lasting positive changes while not violating my core values. I am reevaluating everything and discerning what is serving me and what is not for me.
Right now, you do those things for YOU....
You evaluate what is good in your life, and throw away the bad traits that you have developed throughout your relationship.
You are prepping for your next relationship, making a template of what you want, what you need, what you give, etc....
Now, that next relationship could very well be with your current spouse, you don't know that yet and can't worry about that either....
Anything rekindled, would be an entirely new relationship anyway....
You control one person Rock....
Give me one example of something that you changed, that you didn't like about yourself ??