There are many layers to this, but I think this is a good place to start.
Found this quote searching "How a man can gain a woman's respect"
Originally Posted by ReneeWade
Everybody knows men crave respect in an intimate relationship with a woman.
But it’s not always automatic for women to give it. Lately I’ve been investigating the idea that respecting a man is not 100% always a woman’s conscious choice in a relationship.
Here’s why: I feel deep respect for my husband, and it’s not logical. I don’t tell myself to respect him. He earned it by not being willing to be a passive man.
I believe she hit the nail on the head. How can you not be willing to be a passive man when dealing with your wife during this?
For kicks and giggles, how would you respond if she says:
"Rock, I miss you"
How would you guess LH19 would respond?
I bet something like this:
LH19 "Really, how about you show me how much you miss me" with a twinkle in his eye insinuating she do something naughty.
The last thing you want to do is say "I miss you too". complete turn off for her.
