Mike, remember GAL is not a checklist item. It isn't something that you do a few times and check off. It is ongoing. Sounds like you did a good job this weekend. Now what are your plans this week?
I almost have to make it a check list item so I don’t find excuses not to. I’ve spent a lot of years doing nothing for myself and it’s too easy to slide back into that comfort zone. I’ll be running or hitting the gym every day for sure. D has basketball 5 days this week. I signed up to make Chili for a huge tournament our high school is putting on this weekend, that’s not something I would normally do even though I enjoy cooking. Planning on going one night to a new bar or restaurant. Have to pick a place still.
That's fair. My point was more that with checklist items we tend to check them off and consider them done. GAL had persisted for me well into my reconciliation. It will always be part of life now.