Finally meet a guy organically. I find out his fatal flaw……
He’s still married. Yup, I kid you not. “Going through a divorce” wants to tell me the whole story. I don’t want to hear it. They still live together.
Pretty much dating at 42 is dating a whole bunch of men barely divorced, newly divorced, going through a divorce… bit to find someone a year out from divorce? Nearly impossible. I’m in such a vastly different place from men my age. Early 40’s is a very common time for a divorce.
It’s truly disheartening . I wish I would have met someone when I was in my early 30’s. But the market for divorced single moms with toddlers wasn’t so hot either.
What a trip it has been. In the end…. Me my daughter and my dog. All I can trust.
To answer your question BL: I meet all unavailable men because, well, they are all unavailable !
