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For the first time in a long time, I was feeling super down this evening. I think it is the holidays. My EX always made them so special. I put on some holiday music and that just made it worse. So, I decided to log in here. Behold! A new thread from Job. I don't post here much these days because I've suspected for a while that my EX knows about this site and has seen my posts. No proof...just a feeling. I don't know all the details of your sitch because you were well into your journey by the time I got here in early 2011, but I've always loved reading your posts. The advice is always spot on. I just wanted to say thanks for all the advice you have given me and others through the years. God knows I've needed it. I too was married 25 years. (Technically 26 by the time the divorce was final.) I hung on for a very long time before getting my act together. Too long. If there was any advice I could give a newbie, it would be to do the work, move on, and live your life as if the EX isn't coming back. Don't waste time. Life is too short.
