Originally Posted by SteveLW
If you're marriage was on solid ground and you started helping around the house then that would likely score points. Now it just makes you look desperate. Some would even say weak. ....And if you don't believe me then ask yourself how much OM was helping around the house during her PA? The answer is zero.
This is a very insightful statement. Really contemplate this.

Accentuate the differences between the sexes. Do the manly things around the house and leave the womanly things for her.