My boundaries and limitations in this relationship: No cheating.
I have to challenge you on this one...is her cheating truly a boundary? If so, how do you plan to enforce it? Because you know she did cheat, right? Saying it's a boundary is only words; what is your action in response?
Originally Posted by Rockon
Loyalty, fidelity, trust and respect are paramount and required by me.
All four of those are very reasonable values to look for in any relationship, and especially a marriage.
Originally Posted by Rockon
I need to be treated as a priority by my W. That my W goes to me for joy and adventure and not just when she wants me to do something for her.
You can't make your W treat you as a priority. This is out of your control. Especially in your current situation.
Originally Posted by Rockon
I need to prioritize my own needs.
Yes, that's the right attitude. This IS something you can control. Now do it.
