Any other that you may know is close to mine? I was the major cause of it, and yet I never saw it. Was very comfortable in my mind set thinking everything would just magically work out, with zero real effort.
You can't swing a dead cat without hitting a dudes story is not the same. It's the little things with women. Listening, small acts of appreciation, leading. Keep doing those things and they can't get enough of you. Stop doing those things and they can't wait to see you go. Hard lessons are the ones that sick my friend.