You make a good point. I think my mind is still in the hopium phase. I waited for years to have her come back, when in reality she was already well on her way and moved on. So, I still try to be nice and am thinking of us getting back together..
Thank you for being honest and I already knew the answer to the question. I think this board can get people stuck sometimes. So just make sure you are not trying to punish her right now. Ultimately I think a friendship someday is best for your family.