Just be yourself and tell her kindly that you really don't want to discuss each other's personal lives now that you're divorced. You hope she's happy, but you don't need or want to know anything else.
Yeah, it really is that simple...
Hey, you know, I was thinking of how I don't want to have discussions about what I am doing in my life, and who I am dating with you. So maybe we could BOTH feel that way, and I don't have to have discussions about yours either ? .....I'm glad that you are finding happiness, yet it doesn't serve me to hear about your adventures in dating.
Soo wordy. If/When she brings it up.
"Hey I'm not comfortable talking about dating with you"
You don't need to send a text out of the blue... in fact.. you might want to consider setting a boundary on yourself about only doing short conversations keeping it all business about the kids - if you haven't already.
