Wow....I post something about myself and this thread shuts down huh ?
I don't need any responses actually. I kinda felt bad tying G's thread up with my crap.
And WOW, this place has changed....it certainly isn't what I remember it being. It isn't the place that I came to all those years ago.
I saw somewhere that someone was a 'victim' of Cyberbullying .....really ?
Holy schidtcicles...
I wouldn't be where I am today without being pushed, and sometimes into a corner.
I had 2 options then....stay there and hide from myself and the hard questions....
Or face the truth within myself and come out of the corner....stronger...
I suppose that everyone is different, and not everyone reacts and interprets things the same.
I suppose it isn't much different than any other social outlet that we have today.
It's about the "likes" or the "views"...instead of it being about truth, integrity, and honor...
It feeds the massive Ego in some people. Better to be well liked than to be honest...
Kinda like...."oh, I have the answer because I read it online !!! "
Not because they have life experience to back their words. Or actually done the work on them self to KNOW the answer...
"Hey, I look good on paper...I can talk the talk, but I cannot walk the walk...."
Pfft....I deserve better from myself, for myself...
And I am fairly sure that posting here, and laying our story out here is still a choice that is made...
I do agree that there is a downtrend in new people staying around. I think that the main contributor for that though is that everything in our world had become disposable. Including our marriages...
Don't like this or that ?
Feeling hurt ? Pride hurt ?
F it....end the marriage. That will show her/him.....
Maybe that is why there is so much discussion on the online dating thing.
We can be anything we want to be online....
Yet online doesn't demand accountability from us. Only we can do that.
What has always been different about here, was that we held each other accountable in our thoughts. feelings, words, actions....etc...
Anywoo....that's my .02
G....
You doing anything fun for this holiday weekend ???