Originally Posted by Stella20
Thanks Andrew,
So do I use the apprasior my L suggested or just get a realtor that H agrees to? As I said, there has been nothing from him or his L since the temp order.
Your lawyer is the pro and has done all this before. I'm just a random guy from a different country with a different situation.

As others have mentioned, there are lots of ways to value assets including the house. When I went for a mortgage the bank was happy to use the number from the local property tax assessor for example.

I think I can safely say though that you cannot trust your H to act in your best interests or by the sounds of it to even act at all much less in a timely basis. And there's something to be said about lining up your ducks without poking the bear.